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Have you ever been in situations which (in several minutes, the next morning, in some time, etc.) make you feel embarrassed (agreeably surprised)? I think you have. I suppose, in these moments of understanding you were saying to yourself something like this:

Variant 1.

– How could I behave like that? How could I break down? Why did I shout at him (her, the parent, the child, the friend, the neighbor, the sales assistant, that person, etc.)? What has come upon me? Am I too emotional or is something wrong with me?

Variant 2.

– What happened? Why didn\'t I tell him/her that…? Why did I keep silent? Why did I bleat out? I should have said that! But I didn\'t… And now this ship has sailed!

Variant 3.

– I\'ve been in great form today! Well done! I wish I could be in this state more often! Then I would be able to move mountains!

I could also suppose that such inner monologues take place only after everything has happened. But at that very moment it seems to you… No! You are absolutely sure that here and now you behave in the right way. There is no other way to act! And you have the right to behave like that! Or… that you can\'t, you are unable to behave in a different way.

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